Astrology — Eros in Libra

Eros in Libra: What Turns You On & How You Pursue It

Eros in Libra describes what you actually desire and how you chase it, the erotic charge underneath your Venus. Meaning, gift, shadow, and how to find your Eros sign.

Eros in Libra wants beauty, balance and the courtship. The bed matters, but so does the dinner before it, and you are turned on by grace, fairness and being met as an equal.

What Eros in Libra wants

In Libra, Eros is aesthetic, relational and charming. You pursue with elegance and you are seduced by it. Desire needs harmony: conflict, ugliness and imbalance switch it off.

The gift

You make desire civilised in the best sense. Partners feel courted and respected, and you are genuinely good at pleasure for two.

The shadow

The shadow is wanting to be wanted more than wanting, pleasing until your own desire disappears, and indecision between options.

Working with it

Say what you want before asking what they want. Tolerate a little mess. Choose.

Questions

What does Eros in Libra mean?

Eros in Libra wants beauty, balance and the courtship. The bed matters, but so does the dinner before it, and you are turned on by grace, fairness and being met as an equal.

Is Eros in Libra compatible with my partner?

Compare your Eros with their Psyche and theirs with yours; the sign says the style of desire. At its best: You make desire civilised in the best sense. The growth edge: The shadow is wanting to be wanted more than wanting, pleasing until your own desire disappears, and indecision between options.

How do I find my Eros sign?

Enter your birth details in the Asteroid Calculator to find your Eros sign, house and degree, plus Psyche, Aphrodite, Amor and six more, with every tight aspect they make to your Sun, Moon, Venus and Mars.